Pherrell Williams' "Happy": Why Can't We Dance?

Why Can't We Dance? (Caution: Uncensored Happiness ahead)

No matter how you are feeling today, would you take four minutes and see what happiness can do to a soul,  body and face? 


But how far away, how foreign this can feel! Why Can't we dance? 


Sometimes we are too sad to dance.  I meet friends when I'm out shopping, and I see their heavy faces, and soon we are emptying our hearts into each other, and the weight sinks us down to our feet, and we can hardly walk out of the store . . . .  And I know not what to do except pray. (But I cannot dance.)




Sometimes we are too angry to dance----or even to go to church. (Shall I tell you how angry I was the morning of the Sabbath?  The words, ohhhhh, the words and the hurt! A gift wasted.  And then we slink off to Church together, wondering how we will sit together . . . .)  We will not be dancing together  this day . … yet. 




And sometimes we are just plain ugly on our feet, you know? I believe in grace, God's wondrous grace, but my body cannot always live it out, uncoordinated mess that I am.  How fair is this, that some move like water, some curl and swirl and lift like steam, and some move like chunks of ice? Why did He make us so different?


Sometimes we can't hear the music. We hear only the thud of our own heart and it carries no harmony, no sweeping melody that lifts our feet higher than a shuffle. We have no ears to hear beyond ourselves.



Sometimes we don't believe in Dance. Or joy. We think God wants us to stay sad, and broken and imprisoned. That happiness is for fools and children. Who can lift their heads and hands and feet and sway and leap when wars are roaring, the mountains collapse, and planes disappear? How then do we dance?



Listen. There is more than one kind of dance. There are times and seasons. Yes, tragedy is always present in the world. We can watch it, suffer with others, and when it's time, we can turn away. This is not all of the world. There is yet joy here too where some dare to follow their feet . ..






It comes even to penguins. 




But a cartoon and a cute penguin named Happy Feet is not enough to make me happy.  It is Jesus, who stepped and limped and fell all the way to the cross, carrying our sorrows and burdens and our sins with Him. He is Lord of the Dance, who,"for the Joy set before Him," endured the cross, despising its shame. Because of that, those limping steps, yesterday in church my husband and I linked hands and forgave each other . .. a private dance in our pew. And the friend and I prayed together, our heads and hands in a dance of prayer. And if we listen carefully, we'll hear it … the melodic pulse of a living, thriving world around us . . .







Because of Him, we have so many reasons to dance. And though I am pathetically awkward, I want to grab your hand and kick up a shoe with you. Or at least, can we watch others together? Here, even those who do not know Him or name Him, dance because of Him---because He himself is Life, and Love and Joy and Strength. Can you see it? 


I wish you this same joy and delight in life. In Him.






11 comments:

  1. enjoyed that post very much, so relevant. Rochelle

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  2. I love to dance. There are days I dance in my living room. I see myself as that beautiful ballerina, but on the outside I am one of the guys in the "Brave" video. LOL One way to surely embarrass my children is to break out in dance in public. :-)

    One of my favorite songs to dance to is Chris Rice's Untitled Hymn (Come to Jesus). Beautiful lyrics. Beautiful Savior. THANKS!

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    1. Barb--I love that song as well! I was looking for some good Praise Dancing to include here, but couldn't find the right thing . .. And SO true. If you want to embarrass your kids, dancing will do it much quicker than singing!!

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  3. I love dance... if music is on...it is hard for me to be still... if I am holding back...it seems to have to leak out somehow...even if it is just my foot tapping. Did you see Saving Mr Banks...there is one scene where where Pl travers is listening to the music of Mary Poppins... her heart is starting to melt but she is holding back...her face is still stoic but the camera pans down and her feet are dancing. Sometimes that is all we can do...whether it is in small or big ways we always have a reason to dance because of Whose we are!!!

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    1. Ro, I have GOT to see that movie! Here is one more reason, then! Dance is one of those things that I love and believe in----and want to do. But somehow it has gotten left behind in this too-busy life. But I so want to change that …. It's on my bucket list before I turn 80--to take at least one dance class!

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  4. Good words. Hard words. Thanks for posting them!

    Cheryl Russell

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  5. Thanks for this, Leslie. Since dance is my field, this reflection made my day.

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  6. What a difference between being "happy" which is so related to our circumstances and deep abiding joy in our inner being. Leslie I encourage you some day when the boys are out of the house to put in Cate Morris's CD from here and crank "You Make Me Glad" and start dancin in your kitchen! Summer is almost here, salmon are coming & the peace and tranquility of the Island is calling...

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    1. Bernadette---indeed!! There's nothing like dancing to Praise Music!! I love it! (I just wish I could really dance, you know??) But yes, it's so wonderful to be able to express our joy in Jesus through our bodies, through all we've been given!!

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